To the guy who grabbed my arm at the club,

While I understand that I was pretty hot last night. The skirt. The boots. I get it... You were NOT the only guy checking me out. You were, however, the only guy who thought for whatever reason that he could grab my arm, swing me around to face him and then try to grind on me.

Big mistake, dude.

First, if you want to dance, ASK.

Second, DO NOT TOUCH ME. Don't sneak up behind women in dark clubs and grab them, even on their arm, and pull them or swing them around. Honestly, you're lucky I didn't punch you. I'll need to take yet ANOTHER self defense class so my reactions get better again.

Third, don't act like I'm unreasonable when after grabbing me, I tell you NO... Don't get in my face and try to change my mind by YELLING at me, cause, that just won't work. Bullying me into dancing with you isn't going to work, and WHY would I ever want to spend any time with a man who thinks that yelling, grabbing and bullying are acceptable ways to introduce himself to me and get me to spend time with him? Umm no...

Learn some manners before you hit the clubs again, Douche Bag...