Oh the Drama!!!

Let's just say that I thought the drama went away when you grew up... apparently I was wrong. I may be having an adolescent moment, but guys SUCK! Wait, let me clairify that... STUPID guys suck.

Now I realise that there are a lot of stupid, bitchy girls out there and it's hard to find someone nice, some one who respects you, someone you can connect with, but just because a girl might not be sure about something doesn't mean she's cheating, it doesn't mean you're horrible or she doesn't love you... it might be that she's afraid or unsure about herself. Guys never seem to think of that. If someone exudes confidence it must mean that they can never second guess themselves or wonder what they would bring to a relationship or wonder what's best for them.

I find that an extraordiarily inordinate amount of people act before they think... and they do STUPID things that can't be taken back and can't change or be undone and they end up hurting people in ways that might not be able to be forgiven because they thought they had figured something out and went on their illogical emotions and didn't try to sort it out. And now everyone has to live with the assinine consequences and be hurt. Guys never seem to get that when they hurt us it lasts and affects the next relationships we have and the trust issues and the confidence issues and the bitchy issues that sneak into relationships and wedge them apart like a crowbar. I'm sure it's not only girls that get hurt in this way, I just think more often than not, guys just make themselves pretend they don't care and move on, becoming more and more insensitive and prickish.

I just had a crazy rant on the phone to my best friend... insensibly pacing the room, speaking in a quick, clear, annunciated, California-style, non-inhaling ejaculation of emotion, implicit with full expletives.

Long story short, people need to THINK before they REACT... it would save a lot of drama in the end.